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Tohru has been a big help in a lot of concepts.
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Atlas ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 5/24/2023 3:19 AM
I think it's interesting how having conversations in my system, different people can reflect different aspects of our brain. I was talking to Mason about something, and I found it interesting how she seemed to reflect our more pessimistic thoughts, while I seemed more optimistic, despite sharing the same brain and having similar life experiences.
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TiCtAc(✧×✧) BOT 5/24/2023 8:10 AM
that’s because you put different names on different processes/emotions/states of mind
8:11 AM
let yourself feel full range of emotions so you can grow beyond a one or two dimensional character
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I mean, it's not like we're set in our ways
1:44 PM
We have different perspectives on things at different times, that should be the opposite of being one-dimensional
1:45 PM
I was just saying how I found it was interesting that two headmates can have a productive conversation about something they're both familiar with, due to them having multiple outlooks on it
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"why don't you just become a singlet?"
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A long kiss goodnight 5/24/2023 3:45 PM
It's possible to share optimism and pessimism levels across two or more headmates. (edited)
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Gray | Shadow System BOT 5/24/2023 3:46 PM
I think Ranger and I are both typically optimistic given the fact we were trained to be more optimistic during CBT. However, we both have our pessimistic moments
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TiCtAc(✧×✧) BOT 5/24/2023 3:59 PM
"why don't you just become a singlet?"
@Yuka - jump not sure what was that a reply for?
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Feels like you're saying why be different headmates ("labels") when you can just be one human with every trait that happens to arise
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That’s just being a normal person lmao
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TiCtAc(✧×✧) BOT 5/24/2023 4:07 PM
Feels like you're saying why be different headmates ("labels") when you can just be one human with every trait that happens to arise
@Yuka - jump do you think two headmates are incapable of feeling the same thing? I definitely don’t think sk
4:07 PM
or even sharing same traits
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Well, I never said that
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TiCtAc(✧×✧) BOT 5/24/2023 4:08 PM
me neither
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So why bring it up?
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me niether lol
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It's not part of what I was meaning to talk about
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One headmate can tend to be more pessimistic and another can tend to be more optimistic, and it's not a problem to solve either
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TiCtAc(✧×✧) BOT 5/24/2023 4:10 PM
and i definitely not said that someone should become a singlet
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far from jt
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A long kiss goodnight 5/24/2023 4:11 PM
I think there's a balance to this sort of thing. You can have one headmate more pessimistic or optimistic than another, but if it's all the time that's concerning.
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TiCtAc(✧×✧) BOT 5/24/2023 4:11 PM
yes
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A long kiss goodnight 5/24/2023 4:12 PM
I think it would make sense to have one's feelings stem from their experiences rather than being pessimistic just to "be that guy"
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TiCtAc(✧×✧) BOT 5/24/2023 4:12 PM
imo if there is a strong imbalance some repression moght be happening due to „this tulpa is not supposed to feel sad” etc
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Exactly. Mason was feeling shitty at the time, but that doesn't mean it's not the other way around sometimes. I never meant to imply it was our sole defining personality traits.
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You seemed to imply that's what I meant, I didnt.
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TiCtAc(✧×✧) BOT 5/24/2023 4:12 PM
cool cool
4:13 PM
yeah you did clarify it before
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I am an extremely pessimistic person, as is Error, but Ink isn't
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I meant to say how interesting it is that despite our shared brain, we are able to separate our emotions
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That's the same with us
4:32 PM
Though whenever one of my headmates feels a certain way i can 'feel' that they're feeling it and it sorta affects me ...which is why james being miserable is so harmful sometimes
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But he's been a lot less miserable lately so.
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Sorry for being a little ornery earlier
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TiCtAc(✧×✧) BOT 5/24/2023 5:19 PM
i don't think you were ornery
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so it's all good
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ok so people in tulpa questions asked so ill tell the tale of how my tulpa hugged me
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Kira 🐉 BOT 5/28/2023 12:44 AM
do it!
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waiting to read it!
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sorry
12:46 AM
im juggling 5 convos
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anyway
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one time i was with my tulpa
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and i remember i wanted to chill before studing cause i was stressed
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i find out that before i can chill
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mhy dad like
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lets cut yo hair
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whitch made me so stressed tried and i just thought i wish you could hugged me
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disney style
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she said (i think) never know till you try
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then boom
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hug
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Kira 🐉 BOT 5/28/2023 12:49 AM
how real did it feel?
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proceed to mentally freaking out
12:49 AM
very
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Kira 🐉 BOT 5/28/2023 12:49 AM
lots of hugging happens in here. None is physically real feeling though..
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i wanna visualize her irl
12:50 AM
ao it feels 100 percent real not 90
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Kira 🐉 BOT 5/28/2023 12:50 AM
I want to have a dream.
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wdym are you a tulpa?
12:51 AM
or a host?
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Kira 🐉 BOT 5/28/2023 12:52 AM
I’m a tulpa. All the dreams are in Sky’s perspective. I want at least my own dream, even better would be to meet and hug.
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…often I hate my origins.
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but that’s not related here really.
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youre tellimg me i was made just to see what happened
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KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧ BOT 5/28/2023 12:53 AM
tulpamancers should have conventions where they just cuddle with each other and impose presence of their tulpas on their cuddlee
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ok imma try something crazy
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imma close my eyes
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and try to see emily
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that way
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Rosalie | Space Scouts 3(🏝)0 BOT 5/28/2023 12:54 AM
Our system communicates a lot using touch
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KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧ BOT 5/28/2023 12:54 AM
so, that wouldn't be what people call visual imposition
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(probably)
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KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧
so, that wouldn't be what people call visual imposition
ik
12:55 AM
i just cant use guides
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ive used them in other comunities
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got me nowhere
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every
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single time
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here ive gotten them naturally
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or with help from Leiko
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thx btw
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i'm glad it helped
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so if my braiin can do it
12:57 AM
why cant somebody just say (making shit up rn btw)
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just look at her
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you know you can
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if you visualized her you already did step one etc..
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and yes leiko im aware that mindset wont work on everything
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but if someone tell me
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stand on your head and count to 10 to see her
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im dang well gonna do it lol
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i think the key is to be genuine about telling you can do it
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i already do
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i can mentally follow her
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with my eyes i just cant see her
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